40, and plus.

As I grow in age, I value women over 40 most of all.  Here are just a few reasons why:  


A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask, 'What are you  thinking?'  She doesn't care what you think.  If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it.  She does something she wants to do, and it's usually more interesting.

Women over 40 are dignified.  They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant.  Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it.

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved.  They know what it's like to be unappreciated.  Women get psychic as they age.  You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40.  Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest.  They'll tell you right off you are a jerk if you are acting like one.  You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her.  Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons.  Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal.

For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed, hot woman over 40, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year old waitress.  Ladies, I apologize.


For all those men who say, 'Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?', here's an update for you.  Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage.  Why?  Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire pig just to get a little sausage!



(copy and paste, too interested not to share)

about: online dating site

jika secara real life tak jumpa, mungkin saya kena usaha cara online.

and I did. for the last 5 years, or more.

speaking about online, anything or nothing can last for a day. period.

you were right. you can be cynical about it, talk behind my back about it, cracks a joke about it, or laugh about it. I don't give a ____ (fill in the blank, any 1st word crossing between your mind is also mine too)

the chances? almost 0%. being 5 years, or more, in online dating site, doesn't make me any prouder. Nampak macam lagi kesian adalah, sebab "hai dah teruk/desperate sangat ke sampai kena join online dating ni..?"

you were right, again.

but I still believe, there are few, even not all, yang ikhlas and terus terang dengan niat mereka. I still tanam dalam kepala yg tak semua online dating tuh kejam. I just believe that there are many guys out there yg not only good, but not gay too, were taken. so I just need my lucky charm la kan, heh.

sebut saja online dating mana I tak join. rasanya sume I join kot, holololll! tapi niat tak memain. itu my principal. and my rule of thumb is- I am serious and I hope you are serious too. and since my middle name is FILTER, I did buang mana2 nama yg tak patut I simpan. no time waster needed.

terbaru, I rejoin this singlemuslim.com site. which bring me closer to lelaki2 muslim luar negara. I can not recall when was my 1st time joined this site, since waktu tuh site ni ialah ada fee, in pound UK ok, bukan RM, haha.. cuma sekarang I found out yg diorang dah longgarkan sikit the syarat, which is lelaki saja yg kena bayar, while the muslimah is FOC yeay!

meh I ajar you guys, macam mana nk kenal akaun faker ni sbb I dah banyak bumped into this scam/faker accounts ni.

1) the same story will goes like this "salam, hai, my name is ____, I am an engineer of ____, living in ____ 1 daughter, wife died during ______ (top #1 is cancer, top #2 is died during delivered our baby girl)", I had come across your profile and I must say that you are 1 interesting girl. pls send me your email and your latest picture so we can be closer as friend, or more. thank you..."

2) they will send you their picture via email, which exactly the same picture on their profile picture. 2 is max. not more than 2.

3) wrongly send me welcome or intro notes 2 times in a row.

4) all stories are too good to be true. eg: money is NOT a problem to me.

5) all stories are Ctrl+A+C+V from the WORD.

dah, takat ni ada few fakers yang hello me and report user had been sent straight after the bau ikan keluar. 1 good/nice thing about singlemuslim is they took seriously about fake accounts. after investigation was done, normally they will suspend or delete the fake account a.s.a.p.


usaha, usaha jugak, hati-hati pun kena jugak. take care everyone :)

random ramadhan 2013

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the wife ngidam, 2nd child. bulan2 pose ni laa dia rasa nak jamah durian belanda  lalu diberitakan laa kepada si suami tentang keinginannya nan satu (buat masa ni)

sang suami pasrah. masuklah dia ke gerai2 buah.. bazaar2 ramadhan.. untuk mencari durian belanda (sirsak dalam bahasa indo)

gerai buah2 pertama... "bang, ada jual durian belanda?" abg tuh geleng.

gerai buah2 kedua.. "bang, ada jual buah durian belanda tak?" abg tuh jawab "takde musim.

gerai buah2 ketiga.. "bang, durian belanda ada tak bang?".. abg yg sibuk sempat geleng saja.

masuk gerai keempat.. cuaca plak elok memancor2 sinaran matahari petang, kelaparan, kepenatan, kehausan barangkali..

masuk gerai kelima.. suami tanya.. "bang, ada jual DURIAN TEMBAGA TAK?" abg gerai tuh pandang si suami tak berkelip.

balik rumah, bila cerita semula, berdekah kena gelak. adoi laa haii...



#2
yer.. tahun ni aku belum ada peluang nak iron kain pelekat suami untuk terawihnya. tahun depan cuba lagi ok? jangan pernah putus asa ok?



#3

bila raya je mesti ada rombongan merisik/bertunang, kan? so sweet. tp skrang  tak yah  tunggu raya.. bulan puasa ramai yang menikab. double sweet.

kisah jodoh 2 (hal perjodohan tak menjadi)

rasanya ada manusia jenis tak berani nak sampai ke garisan penamat sebuah hubungan.

takut-takut.

sebab banyak sangat berfikir itu ini.

tak kisah la kalau tudung labuh mana.
atau seluar tuh senteng yang dibuat pendek mana.

kalau nama takut, buat laa macam mana, takut tetap ada.


its like... ko dah betol suka dia, dia pon suka kau, masing-masing dah ready, tapi bila makin nak datang hari2 penting tuh, hati kau mula berbolak balik, serba tak kena, saling bersoal dalam hati. tiba2 wujud watak A dan watak B dalam diri (regardless yg mana satu watak hitam janji watak tuh ada baik dan ada buruk)

from what I read, benda bolak balik nih adalah keje setan yg namanya aku dah lupa. tugas dia mmg akan meragukan/ membolak balik/ mengacau jiwa manusia2 yg nak mendirikan masjid melalui pernikahan orang yg betul2 nak dirikan masjid sebijik dia tak kacau plak eh, eheh!

I admit, I was 1 of them bukan setan tuh tapi manusia yang hati berbolak balik tu laa... bila masa dah dekat bertunang dulu, aku tak kisahkan nak pkai baju apa (yg pasti aku nak pkai baju kaler putih sebab aku kuat rasakan aku tak kan sempat pakai putih time nikah..)

lalu mak aku risau. masa dia ajak shopping baju, aku masuk kedai Peace tuh je, pas belek, dengan separuh hati aku amek selai baju kurung moden putih rm89.90. tudung plak aku beli kat paso malam rm25, takde batu berlian pakai. mak aku soh beli veil aku cakap takmo, buat apa veil, macam rupa nak menikah. masa tu degil aku lain macam. kalau malas nk bagi pendapat, aku gtau YES or APA-APA JELA je ke mak

takde rupa beria. takde rasa happy. mungkin sebab ala2 terpaksa bertunang dengan orang yang kita langsung tak kenal kan.. so macam tula akhirnya.


BERTUNANG DALAM KEADAAN TAKDE HATI.

berjodohan dan berpisah itu bukan call kita

nak elak tido lepas sahoor maka mari update entry di tiap blog under jagaan kita.

ok, topik lapuk. bukan luar biasa. kita semua ada kisah klasik untuk masa depan. semua tak terlepas. its normal. deal with it.

bertemu dan berpisah itu normal. bercinta kemudian putus. bertunang kemudian putus. bernikah kemudian bercerai. normal. normal. normal..

minggu lepas macam2 kes perkahwinan kita dapat dengar dan rasa. seperti biasa saya la yang melebih2 bab emosi. sengaja membemban diri dengan benda tak perlu itu kepandaian saya.

ada juga kedengaran kisah putus tunang yg hampir dengan kes saya dulu. cuma bukan   melalui sms. itu kes saya solely and exclusive one. heh.


bila mendengar kes yg hampir sama, secara tak langsung trauma saya dtg kembali. namun ladar terkawal. sy cuma teringat liku2 yg ada depan mata waktu itu. sakit.

sesiapa pon yang bertunang atas kehendak dan alasan org lain selain diri sendiri; akan merasa dua tiga kali lipat terbeban rasa. niat permulaan mungkin mahu akhiri dengan baik dalam segala perancangan seumur hidup. mahu jadi ank yg mendengar kata. mahu rasa ini yg terbaik. mahu segalanya baik dan aman.

bila dah berada dalam satu ikatan hampir simpul mati, dan kedaan makin tak terjangka (seperti baru kenal watak sebenar pasangan) cuba utk menjadi yg baik dikalangan terbaik. cuma sedaya upaya mahu memanjangkan hayat hubungan. cuma sekuat hati utk terima pasangan seadaanya kerana tidak mahu ada sesiapa yg menanggung malu kemudian hari. namun berpisah jua kerna terpaksa.

secara normal- org akan beritahu.. "xpe, boar putus skrg; jgn bcerai kemudian"

kurang2 pon, kita dah rsa bagaimna payahnya nak syg org walau hati terpaksa dan tak rela.

spenat tau. bukan penat mcm menyangkul. tp penat berfikir hal yg sama siang dan malam.